Kissing and Touching
As I become a teenager, I am becoming more interested in girls.
I hear a lot about kissing, private touching, and sex.
I see it on the computer also.
My friends talk about it too. I think about it a lot also.
Kissing, touching, and sex are a normal part of life. They are fun and make me feel good.
However, some things I can do now and some things I should not do until I am older. Some things are appropriate at school, and some in private.
Before doing any of these things I should make sure that the girl I want to do them with also wants to do them with me.
Before I kiss a girl I should follow these rules:
1. I have known her for more than a month
2. We talk frequently and consider each other good friends.
3. I ask her if I can kiss her.
4. She says yes.
5. We are not at school during school hours. I can kiss after school or at a dance.
Before I touch a girl on the breasts I should follow these rules:
1. I have known her at least 6 months.
2. We are good friends and talk frequently (at least 3 times a week.)
3. We talk about touching and make sure we both feel comfortable with it. If I feel uncomfortable, or she does, we will wait.
4. We only do it in a private place. It cannot be done at school. It cannot be done when other people are around.
I am not ready to have sex. I am not old enough, and my brain is not mature enough. It will be several years before I am ready to have sex. Sex means touching genitals with hands or mouth, touching my penis to her vagina or in her vagina.
When I am ready to have sex, I should follow these rules:
1. I have known her at least a year.
2. We are good friends and talk every day.
3. We talk about sex for at least a month before we decide to do it.
4. I agree that I am ready to have sex with her. She agrees that she is ready to have sex with me.
5. We talk to a doctor about how to have safe sex. Safe sex means that I use a condom and the girl uses birth control pills.
6. We only do it in a private place at a home.
All of these: kissing, private touching, and sex are a natural part of being a human being. But all of these things have a time and place.
Until I am ready to move to the next step (1st kissing, 2nd private touching, last sex) there are things I can do with a special girl friend.
-We can talk and get to know each other better
-We can hold hands
-We can spend time together
My body is maturing, and I get erections and I have a lot of interest in sex. When I am in private, I can masturbate. This means rubbing my penis with my hand. This can only be done in private, and it is best if I do it in the bathroom where I can be clean. I can ask dad about how to do this.
I hear a lot about kissing, private touching, and sex.
I see it on the computer also.
My friends talk about it too. I think about it a lot also.
Kissing, touching, and sex are a normal part of life. They are fun and make me feel good.
However, some things I can do now and some things I should not do until I am older. Some things are appropriate at school, and some in private.
Before doing any of these things I should make sure that the girl I want to do them with also wants to do them with me.
Before I kiss a girl I should follow these rules:
1. I have known her for more than a month
2. We talk frequently and consider each other good friends.
3. I ask her if I can kiss her.
4. She says yes.
5. We are not at school during school hours. I can kiss after school or at a dance.
Before I touch a girl on the breasts I should follow these rules:
1. I have known her at least 6 months.
2. We are good friends and talk frequently (at least 3 times a week.)
3. We talk about touching and make sure we both feel comfortable with it. If I feel uncomfortable, or she does, we will wait.
4. We only do it in a private place. It cannot be done at school. It cannot be done when other people are around.
I am not ready to have sex. I am not old enough, and my brain is not mature enough. It will be several years before I am ready to have sex. Sex means touching genitals with hands or mouth, touching my penis to her vagina or in her vagina.
When I am ready to have sex, I should follow these rules:
1. I have known her at least a year.
2. We are good friends and talk every day.
3. We talk about sex for at least a month before we decide to do it.
4. I agree that I am ready to have sex with her. She agrees that she is ready to have sex with me.
5. We talk to a doctor about how to have safe sex. Safe sex means that I use a condom and the girl uses birth control pills.
6. We only do it in a private place at a home.
All of these: kissing, private touching, and sex are a natural part of being a human being. But all of these things have a time and place.
Until I am ready to move to the next step (1st kissing, 2nd private touching, last sex) there are things I can do with a special girl friend.
-We can talk and get to know each other better
-We can hold hands
-We can spend time together
My body is maturing, and I get erections and I have a lot of interest in sex. When I am in private, I can masturbate. This means rubbing my penis with my hand. This can only be done in private, and it is best if I do it in the bathroom where I can be clean. I can ask dad about how to do this.
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